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Well Done is Better than Well Said

Phil Evans

 

Someone once said that “words are cheap”; and this message about Well Done being so much better than Well Said – fits into that space nicely.

We all need to stay aware that our words are taken as lightly by any listener as they wish to take them; but our actions are perceived as being something real and tangible to all observers!

Make sure to follow up your words with actions!

And by doing so you will gain the respect of those around you!

And respect is the foundation of ALL good relationships; as they are truly built upon the rock, and not the sand!

Believe in Yourself

Phil Evans

 

One of our biggest challenges in life is to believe in SELF!


To believe that we can do whatever we set out to do; and do it well.

So many of us have listened to our critics along the way; and learnt to believe that we are not worthy – nor are we capable! It is time to smash that belief if you are carrying it around with you; smash it - or simply put it down and walk away, leaving it to wallow in its own despair without you to feed it any longer.

Powerful stuff to actually realise this – and then let go of it.

Attitude

Phil Evans

 

Yes .... Attitude is everything!


Well .... almost everything.

If we take a positive attitude; add some faith in self; make some wise choices; and take some definite actions; then we’ve got a huge chance of achieving what we set out to do!

Sometimes, the Answers Can be Simple

Phil Evans
The response to my Coaching Offer has been very pleasing; and to all those who have responded, I will reply to you within the next 24hrs.


I am guessing that there are still a handful of people, who for their own reasons, want to respond, but haven't yet.  C'mon, don't let pride or procrastination get in the way ... this is perfect for you ... and you'll feel so good if you 'quietly' share that information with me.  Now ... perhaps ...

Sometimes, the Answers CAN be So Simple

Over the past year or so I've been getting to know one of my neighbours and his son.

The father - 65, and his son - 32.  They both suffered a great loss nearly two years ago when they lost wife and mother to Motor Neurone Disease.  They've battled with all of the usual roller-coaster ride of emotional turmoil; and have often been drowning in the depths of their individual, and combined grief.

The message today is NOT about the grief and loss, or the heartache and uncertainty experienced by these two men; but it IS about how a neighbour turned into a friend, by reaching out to them and offering them unconditional support,  via a variety of very simple things.

A couple of days ago I posted these words in facebook: "If you want to feel happy, do something for yourself. If you want to feel fulfilled, do something for someone else".

Oh so true!  For quite a while now I've been inviting the Dad to come walking with me; and getting a "no thanks mate" response, until the other day.  He accepted, reluctantly at first, but he still came along for a walk by the beautiful channel which runs past the front of his house.

Persistence does pay off!  And so can simplicity!

We've been for 5 or 6 walks now, and the instant change in how he feels because of that, is a delight to witness.  Pure magic actually!

In the last week he has joined the same gym as me; the same recreation club; changed his whole attitude; and started talking about huge changes to his general lifestyle.  Yes, something as simple as going for a walk, can change someone's life completely, and possibly forever!

So, I get to feel happy 'cos I'm going for my regular walks; and now have the added fulfillment of helping someone else as they walk with me!

In the middle of me writing this story Sue asked me about one of the bathroom wall fittings being loose, and could I please fix it at some stage.  I went and did my best to re-tighten the tiny little screw that held this fitting together; but that didn't work, so I asked one of my neighbours to help me out.

Not a problem he says, and came over straight away.  
He sat on the floor next to the fitting and turned his screwdriver one quarter of a turn, and the fitting was now completely fixed and re-tightened!  Yep, I was only one quarter of a turn away from doing it myself!  If only ... smiling ...

Was I embarassed?  No way .... I got a good laugh out of it actually; but it was another example of 'sometimes, the answers can be simple', and often much more simple and easy than we think!

Stay well and I'll be back soon ...

Special Xmas Coaching and Offer

Phil Evans
Could this be perfect timing for you?  The arrival of a missing link?

A lot has happened to our world in the last 12 months.
Has your own world been changing lately? Maybe for longer than the last year?
And ... perhaps more than you would've liked it to .... ?
It certainly has been challenging for me; and lots of other people I know!

How are you doing as we head into the Christmas New Year period?  
Are you comfortable with where you're at?  Ready for a great 2012?
 
Christmas time and New Year are the absolute best times for some people ....
And, unfortunately, the worst times for so many others! 


One of the most important things that has been strongly reinforced for me lately, is that we ALL need to have special 'go to' people in our lives!  And sometimes, regardless of who we are, those people need to be Professionals.  People who can give us the best guidance and support that we need!  
Pride often gets in the way, and just won't let us reach out due to embarassment, or that feeling that we might be seen to be a failure.

We can NOT do it on our own; it's as simple as that!
Reaching out DOES take courage; especially that first step!


The bottom line is this ... 
If you're feeling stuck, or alone; or not on the path you'd like to be on ... I'd like to help!
A good Coach and Mentor helps you change your life; or ... your business!

I'm looking to help a small, special, select group of people for 12 weeks: beginning 1st week in Dec.
It doesn't matter where you are located, because I've been able to guide people in over 50 countries, thanks to the wonders of the internet.

There are some worldwide testimonials at this link: Worldwide Testimonials

Once again: Could this be the perfect timing for you?
You might fit into one of the following situations ... (but it doesn't matter if you don't)

1. People who would give anything to be able to "Do Christmas Different"!  
2. People who are feeling that they just aren't coping; and would like to!
3. People who are feeling disempowered or anxious; and want to change!
4. People who are feeling that they haven't quite matured into being a real Man or Woman (even though they've tried); and that a scared little inner-child is still adversely controlling their lives!
5. People who wish to enter 2012 refreshed and ready to go; ready to embrace it 100%!

I have created this opportunity to allow me to offer fully focused and intensive Coaching Sessions to a limited number of prospects. (in person, or via skype) Applications and their acceptance will be determined by your individual care and needs factors; and charges will also be set by your own financial circumstances.  And that cost factor is my own MAJOR point of difference from other people!
... together with the ability to help you turn your life around of course!
  
Yes, you will help me to set the fees for this unique Coaching and Mentoring opportunity!

Okay, what will you get out of this?
Me as your Personal Coach and Mentor, sounding board, guide, and judgement-free friend; plus ...
*12 weeks of one-on-one support and challenging guidance;
*A comprehensive Life Questionaire (you get to keep as a referral guide for life);
*A one-on-one session with me each week; minimum of 30 mins (in person or on skype); and
*Email support during the week between our one-on-one sessions

Who might qualify for this opportunity? 
Firstly, as I am not doing this 'just for the money', the fee will represent an investment in changing the quality of your life and lifestyle. Each package is for 90 days (12 weeks).

To be considered as a starter, you must agree to the following process ...
Step 1: You must complete an extensive Client Questionaire.
Step 2: We agree to a 90 day program.
Step 3: You agree to take responsibility, and total commitment, to give this your best shot!

In simple words… I won’t take you on unless I think it will work for you; and, you should only get involved if you are 100% committed to being challenged, for your own sake!

If you are interested in finding out more, then simply reply to this email.

The great news is this: if the response is such that I need to create a waiting list ... then I will.

If you can see yourself benefiting from working with me, someone who brings 30 years of experience to the table, and who has personally done the hard-yards, then take action and email me now.
I will get back to you as soon as possible so that we can get things happening.

So, now it's over to you…

Overwhelmed...

Phil Evans

Over the next few days I'll be sending out a special email with the intention of offering specialised Coaching which will be focused on the Christmas Season, and preparation for making 2012 your best year ever!  So, if that sounds like a good idea, please watch this space ...

Speaking of 2012 being almost here; so many people are feeling time poor; too much to do ...
This could help ...

Overwhelmed .... ???

Do you have so much to do that it seems overwhelming?
 
Then stop thinking about how much there is, and start getting it done; one small bit at a time.
 
Feeling overwhelmed is merely a state of mind that you choose.
 
And just as easily as you can choose it, you can choose to let it go.
 
A new day, new month, new year dawns: and it can make you feel like time is quickly slipping away.

But in fact, time comes to you just as quickly as it moves past.
 
And that means that each moment you get the opportunity to make a difference.
 
Each moment, the best thing you can do is to make full and meaningful use of that moment.
 
That is how you get things done.
 
Moment by moment, little by little, small tasks build into great accomplishments.

And those accomplishments then convert into a life with real fulfilment.
 
You don't have to tackle everything all at once.
 
Just do what you can, when you can, filling each moment with positive purpose and action.
 
And what once seemed overwhelming will quickly become a source of real and lasting fulfilment.
 
Remember this: Q: How do you eat an elephant?  A: One small bite at a time!

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